Help

Help is a hard thing to ask a person for. We all need it for one reason or another and yet we can’t ask, why?

Pride keeps us for asking and we need to stop feeling the pride and start asking for help. Why you ask? If you need some help for any reason, and you fall deeper into the problem no one will help you then. I know this first hand, I fell into a deep hole and right now I’m so deep in this hole I’m looking at people with red skin and pointed tails. How did I get this deep? My pride got in the way and stopped me. Now I’m in too deep and, as I said, no one will help. So how can you stop this from happening to you? Ask for help. It’s that simple. Repeat after me, “can you help me? I need____(fill in the blank)” see that? So when you need something fill in the blank and ask a friend or family before you see the people in red and you are so hot you can’t feel the fire under your shoes.

Why did I write that? You see, someone I was getting help from can only help me for a little longer then she needs to move on. I’m talking about a “friend” but yet she does it for a living.(help people) So now I’m upset and need to find help from a co-worker of hers. I’m not happy about this. She started pulling me out of my shell and when I heard she was leaving I started building that wall again. She helped me with my blog, telling me to write about my “friends” and she was a friend that I trusted. I hope she will come to my blog and read it even if she doesn’t handle my case. She’s my therapist and I was getting the help I needed from her. I was not able to talk to people and since she’s been working with me(helping me) I started to talk to people, but as all things it is deeper then just that. (my problems that is) So for the next person, I hope see knows she has a BIG pair of shoes to fill.

This was a short note to Liza letting her know I will miss her and to tell her I hope we can still be friends.

She’s one of very few people that I will call a friend and mean it.

By the way, my cats are driving my mad, my dogs are looking to chew my hands off and Iggy is banging the tank to tease the cats and scare me… so all is normal at home.

As always think you for stopping by and reading this.

Remember, ask for help now when you need it before you get in over your head.

See you soon

Your friend and animal lover

Mike